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We Can Do It!

August 10, 2011

“We can do it!” a famous slogan associated with the 1940′s. More specifically, Rosie the Riveter, an American cultural symbol for women during WWII.

What was it that made her famous? The answer comes from wikipedia (the lazy person’s history book).

Rose Will Monroe, was born in Pulaski County, Kentucky in 1920 and moved to Michigan during World War II. She worked as a riveter at the Willow Run Aircraft Factory in Ypsilanti, Michigan, building B-29 and B-24 bombers for the U.S. Army Air Force.

…Although the image of “Rosie the Riveter” reflected the industrial work of welders and riveters during World War II, the majority of working women filled non-factory positions in every sector of the economy. What unified the experiences of these women was that they proved to themselves (and the country) that they could do a “man’s job” and could do it well.

“We can do it!” shouldn’t be reserved for the 40’s alone but rather continue as womanhood’s mantra today. Whether it be a 9-5 job or staying at home, working to our best abilities should be our aim.

A good friend sent me some pearls for my birthday saying, “Miss, you’re a modern day June Clever. It’s a good reminder that women can still put their “pearls” on to do housework.”

She knows I wear stilettos NOT pearls to vacuum! Her point being, it shouldn’t matter your day’s agenda but how you accomplish it.

Is our work done with dignity, integrity, and to our best abilities?

Each of us as women were born with innate capabilities that weren’t intended to sit dormant on a shelf collecting dust. We need to get in there and show what we’re made of.

Funny but true story…

On the way home from the war plane hanger, we headed to Costco. I thought about rubbing off my lipstick and taking down the “do”. But I didn’t. Instead, I got a LOT of looks mainly from the elderly. They were smiling, as if, remembering a better time.

Husby immediately picked up on it, “Babe, you’re bringing people back to the good ‘ole days.”

That sparked conversation…

“Not gonna lie. Your hair’s pretty hot. Why do you think women did so many crazy things like that with their hair back then? And the lips are old school all the way.”

My thoughts flashed back to the fashion from that era. Modest. Modest in a very tailored, feminine, and classy way.

I answered, “Hair and makeup were used instead of cleavage & bare skin. It was their way of expressing womanhood in a beautifully modest way. Men still thought they were attractive without revealing too much. Fun hair & makeup was their way of being sexy without being immodest.”

To see what’s happened to womanhood today can be disheartening at times. It seems as if men don’t have to work as hard to gain a woman’s affection. However, women have the power to influence men’s behavior by demanding respect through higher standards.

Girls, little girls, grow up to think pretty is push-up bras & too short everythings! It’s blasted everywhere: commercials, store fronts, music… yada yada. Halloween? Need I say more? But it’s not them to blame. It’s what they’ve been taught directly or indirectly.

So women?

We can do it!

A two-fold message: 1) Do our jobs (either corporate or at home) to our fullest potential. And 2) Uphold higher standards of what womanhood used to be, ought to be, and needs to be in order to teach our little girls that they can do it too!

I know we can.
 

  • Credits:
  • Photography – c/o Brandy Cardarelli Photography
  • Leggings, Stripe Top, Chain Link Bracelet – Juicy Couture
  • Boots – Me Too
  • Military Jacket – F21

 

  • LYNN August 10, 2011 at 12:32 pm

    WOW. Goregous!!!!! Love the way your eyes & lipstick POP! These are the best! So strong and beautiful you are!

    • missy August 10, 2011 at 1:40 pm

      Lynn, I’m so fortunate to have your sweet comments every day! Thank you for your kind words! xo

  • Allison J. August 10, 2011 at 12:58 pm

    Beautiful pictures and an even more beautiful message. As a mommy to three girls, I really appreciate this post. I hope to teach my girls that true beauty is grace, poise and most of all, kindness to others. Here’s to hoping that our children grow up in a world where those ideals are not lost.

    • missy August 10, 2011 at 1:40 pm

      Thankfully they aren’t lost with a mother like you! So sweet to know they’re in the care of a Mother who will teach them well! Thank you for your thoughts, Allison. xo

  • Elaine August 10, 2011 at 1:54 pm

    Beautiful, gorgeous, AWESOME pics! Need I say more my little Barbie Doll!!!!?? (SMILE)
    Love your model pics and your inspirational message. You are wayyyyy wise beyond your years!
    Love ya!
    Mama Meacham

    • missy August 10, 2011 at 6:48 pm

      Mama Meacham, you always make me feel like a billion bucks! xo

  • Becca F. August 10, 2011 at 2:17 pm

    Beautiful message Missy! Thanks for a good start to my morning! 🙂

    • missy August 10, 2011 at 6:49 pm

      Awww! And thanks for making my day happier with this comment!

  • Courtney August 10, 2011 at 2:25 pm

    Wow! Awesome shoot! It looks like you had so much fun!

    • missy August 10, 2011 at 6:49 pm

      It was a blast. Sticky hot in that place; but an awesome experience! I’m fortunate to work with such a talented photographer!

  • Amy August 10, 2011 at 3:56 pm

    Seriously, where do you and your photographer come up with these themes and ideas and places to shoot? It’s so awesome! And you look so ready for fall with those sweet boots, I love it. And your hair? Don’t get me started. Love. How did you do it like that?!

    I love this message as well. Thank you for your wise words. We all need to remember what it means to be a true lady and how to teach girls these days what it means too.

    • missy August 10, 2011 at 6:50 pm

      The hair was quite the undertaking. Many redos and some intense concentration! Thank you for your sweet words, Amy! xo

  • sheena d. August 10, 2011 at 4:06 pm

    LOVED LOVED LOVED this post!

    we women are more powerful than we think. and if we put our hearts and minds to whatever we do, to do our best…. we can totally kick bootay!

    you are gorgeous woman!

    • missy August 10, 2011 at 6:51 pm

      you’re right… it has to be both (will power associate with the mind + desire associated with the heart). You’ve got me thinking further. 😉

  • Makenna August 10, 2011 at 5:03 pm

    those boots! so perfect for fall. i’m definitely on the hunt for them now 🙂

  • jenedy August 10, 2011 at 11:32 pm

    Great pictures, and an even better message Missy. We can do it! Now when do we get the Rosie Riveter hair tutorial?

    • missy August 12, 2011 at 12:31 pm

      Oi! Not sure about a tutorial for this one unless there’s more out there that want it?! Ha! Thanks for your loyal support dear friend… and for the pearls! wink wink.

  • Megan T. August 11, 2011 at 1:31 am

    Your post made me think of the women in the movie The Help. Back in that era they wore beautiful dresses and jewelry and had well manicured hair and were absolutely beautiful. It is too bad we can’t go back to that. I teach high school and it is really sad what some girls think makes them look beautiful.

    • missy August 12, 2011 at 12:32 pm

      I think we can move forward using history as our example. Modesty can be current & fresh without the sleeze. I really appreciate your comments and respect you for being such a positive role model in young girls’ lives. xo

  • Kat August 11, 2011 at 3:54 pm

    I just found your blog and LOVE it! what great photos, and I love your message – so true that hair and makeup can be so sexy without all that cleavage!

    • missy August 12, 2011 at 12:33 pm

      So glad you’re enjoying it! Makes me so happy to hear!! xo

  • Lilioshka August 11, 2011 at 10:54 pm

    This is easily, the best post of this blog! Great pictures and great message! 🙂

    • missy August 12, 2011 at 12:33 pm

      Well shoot. Here’s to blushing beet red. You’re too kind. xo

  • Emily August 12, 2011 at 3:53 am

    Love it! I am 17 years old, and I can say amen to that! That’s what I love about hair and makeup! Fun and sexy, minus the nakeness. This post is golden!

    • missy August 12, 2011 at 12:35 pm

      Emily, you’re a remarkable young lady! It’s girls like you that can and will be noticed in the right kind of ways. I commend you on your maturity & poise. Hold strong cutie & help those around you see your same perspective! xo

  • Silvia August 12, 2011 at 5:12 am

    Great post! I love your two-fold message. I have twins – a boy and a girl. My hope is that I can teach my daughter to respect herself, to allow her beauty to shine from within and not to be duped into believing that she needs to dress like a tramp to be noticed. My hope is to also teach my son what a truly beautiful woman is – someone who is gentle and strong and who respects herself and others.

    • missy August 12, 2011 at 12:36 pm

      Your words are spot on! It’s a message we also need to teach our sons. Thank you so very much for sharing your thoughts.

  • Kendra Morris August 13, 2011 at 5:19 pm

    The most AMAZING pictures! Brandy is AMAZING! I love it soooooo much! Great message too! Did I tell you how much I love this?

  • Brandy Cardarelli Photography August 15, 2011 at 12:20 am

    I’m just going to sneak in here and say thank you to Kendra… 🙂

    • missy August 15, 2011 at 12:21 pm

      Sneak away, you ridonkulously amazingly talented photographer, you!

  • DREW HUMPHRIES August 15, 2011 at 8:55 pm

    What a great message!! I totally agree!! We can do other beautiful things that don’t show a bit of cleavage!! We’re such a strong influence for the little girls of our era!
    You look beautiful, sassy and feminine! 😉

  • Lauren {Stylized Existence} September 21, 2011 at 2:47 pm

    Just found your site – your hair and makeup are both SO fierce here. Love it.

  • Holly July 17, 2012 at 9:32 pm

    This is probably the best post I have seen, ever. I think this daily walking around in my small town. I grew up with the standards of a 50’s woman instilled in me and I will make sure my daughter (if I ever have one hah) will have it too. Thank you!

  • Beth February 2, 2013 at 2:27 am

    As the mother of 2 little girls, I find awful that even at 7 and 5 the marketing ads aimed at them are very inappropriate. We have lost the tasteful, classy look and gone to a tasteless, trashy look. Very disheartening. I definitely try to teach my girls even now the the less skin better approach. And to offset that, we do fancy hair (I curl it for church) and let them keep fruity chopstick in stock. As a young (ish -almost 33 what happened?) woman I try to stick to the same example. Keep it all covered tastefully!